The Children



The Special Children of PKKII 


                                                                 Sam Turner

从小Sam的脊椎骨就开始弯曲, 随着年龄增长弯曲的程度越严重。一直到近年已经严重到压着他的胃、肾等,不得不动手术。经过一整年的检查,终于在20123月顺利在国大医院完成手术。
医生说就因为他的骨弯的程度已经很严重。即使动了手术也未能和普通人般挺直。手术后他的脚则长短了。现在必须穿调整鞋垫作调整。

Since young, Sam’s spinal cord started to bend and recently it worsens until it pressures the stomach, kidney etc. so he had to undergo an operation. After a thorough examination for about a year, finally he successfully underwent a surgery on March 2012 at HUKM.
Due to his seriousness of his bone condition, the doctor said that his bone will not be like normal people even after surgery. After operation, one leg looks longer than the other. Now, he has to wear special shoes to readjust his legs.




                                                                 Cheh Fook Seng

以前他刷牙需要“ 2小时 !
He used to take “2 hours” to brush his teeth!                 
经过几年来软硬兼施,他现在做起事来的反应比较快。现在刷牙只需“半小时”,还可以帮忙做家务。
After several years of carrots and sticks, he can respond faster. Now he just uses “half an hour” to brush his teeth and is able to perform household chores.



                                                                  Eugene Lok Weng Chun

- 他在大爱住了一年半大爱之家每一个月都有“新鲜”事发生。
- 偷钱、偷东西、打人、打架、 破坏电视机、家具、向人讨烟吸烟,自残博同情,样样都      是他的杰作。
- 他跳Michael Jackson的舞,人人赞好,他就把自己的名字改成Michael,后来又改成Jackson
- 人人说他穿MJ的衣服很好看(smart),他就天天穿着。不论天气多热,他都可以穿上大衣打领带。

- The chaos maker who never misses any chances to create havoc…Stealing, fighting, destroying, smoking, and self-mutilating just to get sympathy from others. He is the “masterpiece” of all messes.
- He imitates Michael Jackson’s dance and everybody gives a thumbs up. So he changed his name to Michael and now to Jackson.
- He even dresses up like Michael Jackson.
 经过Jeannie顾问几个月来细心关怀照顾下,他的问题很明显的减轻了。他不再自残、连打架、破坏的事也少了。
With our advisor Jeannie’s attention and care, he shows significant improvement. He has stopped mutilating himself and reduced his deviant behaviors.



                                                                Yong Jacky

他在烘培课程毕业后,我们为他在附近的西饼面包店找了一份工作,希望他学以致用,将来说不定可以自供自给。而且他也不必整天闷在家里,就和同伴吵架、打架。但是,他只工作了1个月就被老板“请回”了。
另一份工作则是去做打金学徒。老板很有心想教导他这门手艺,但是每当老板要他做时,他反过来说“我不要做,因为我是老板来的”。就这样没做上一个月,他就炒了老板鱿鱼。
现在他在西药房做货舱帮手,搬搬货、排排东西等。现今已两个月了。希望这份工能作得长久。

After completed his baking course, he worked in a cake shop. We hope he can apply the things he had learnt and avoid him from fighting with his housemates. Unfortunately, he was sacked after 1 month.
Then, he became an apprentice to a goldsmith. However, he thought that he was the boss so he did not want to work much. Finally, he was fired within a month.
Hopefully he can work for long in his current job as a store assistant in a pharmacy.



                                                                 Lim Kah Man
- 他的体重比大爱任何的小孩都上升的快。从去年底50kg增加到今年底62kg他以前是个哭包、很怕事。但现在懂事,还会主动去帮助别人,与人分享。以前的他比较胆小,不敢自己一个人去厕所(所有大便在裤子),勇敢的多了,不止自己上厕所,还会帮忙带大爱的孩子去厕所呢!
- 他是一个学习比较慢的学生,所以需要老师的特别指导。今年我们为他换了另一间补习中心,他以往最差的数学和华语都看到明显的进步。
-          Increased tremendously in his weight…from 50kg end of last year to 62kg this year. He rarely cries now (as compared to previous years). Nowadays he also takes the initiative to help and share with others.Before this, he was timid, scared to go to the toilet himself. But now he is brave, not only go to toilet on his own but also to help others to the toilet. He is a slow learner student,so he needs special guidance of the teacher. This year we send him to another tuition center. His math and Chinese Subjects have improved significant.



                                                                 Chua Wei Chong

一开始来到大爱,他爱发脾气、吵闹、打人。经过两年多的指导,他现在不只不吵闹、打人,而且还和大爱的孩子相处得非常好。

When he first came, he liked to throw temper, make noise and beat other kids. After
2 years of supervision, not only he has stopped all his bad behaviors but he also makes good friends with other kids.



                                                                  Wong Rong Yao

喜欢批评人,无论是谁。爱指示人工作,即使是工作人员他也会开指责。知少少,扮代表总是知道一点点东西就到处去告诉人。我们在开会所讲的事件、决定,他会在很短的时间就让所有人知道。即使是私人及机密的事。
He likes to criticize others regardless of their status.  He also likes to instruct others to do work including the staff. If he knows something, he will tell everyone that he knows this and that. A little knowledge is a dangerous thing! Even the content of our meeting or private and confidential matters will be spread out by him like a blabbermouth.




                                                                                       Yeong Wai Peng

喜欢Jacky(帅哥),当Jacky做错事被罚时,她会打人出气。
Jacky如果外出迟回她就会哭闹。有时更会因为JackyYoke Fong讲太多话而争风吃醋。

He likes Jacky, the handsome boy. When Jacky is punished with his misconducts, she will beat others to blow off some steam. If Jacky comes home late, she will cry. 

 


                                                                 Mun Yew Foong

他可以用多种语言从1算到1000,而且很少会中断。
他吃的精神药已减量,减量后他的食量也减低了。以前他常吃完饭后,抢别人的来吃。

He can use multiple languages to utter numbers 1-1000 and rarely will be interrupted. His antidepressant dosage has been reduced which also reduces his appetite. Last time, he used to grab others’ food to eat even after his meal.





                                                                Loo Roy Jo
他有可爱的一面,你和他谈天会很开心,因为他回答你的问题时总会让你意想不到。
以前他会突然间站起来打人,最近没犯了。却在今年10月被大爱孩子 Ban Hoe 突然间用椅子打到,还缝了3针。

This lovely boy makes you happy when you chat with him. He will give you unexpected answers when you ask him questions.
Sometimes he would hit others out of sudden, but recently he behaves himself. In October, he was hit by Ban Hoe with a chair which left him with 3 stitches on his forehead.



                                                                Kua You Kuet

他很亲他的妈妈。他住在大爱那么多年了,没看到妈妈还好,只要妈妈来看他离开后,他就会哭闹个不停,有时还会闹上几天。所以,现在用心良苦的妈妈来探望他时都会特别打扮,有时戴头巾,不然就戴着头盔,总之就是“无脸见人”。

He is very close to his mother. He has been staying here for many years, but whenever he sees his mother, he will cry nonstop and sometimes for days. Now, the mother masks and covers herself whenever she visits her son.


                                                               Ng Chun Chun
他才到大爱之家两天就进了医院。原因是他来大爱之前把海绵、纸巾等往嘴里吃。他又喜欢挖屁股。他的整只手掌可以塞进自己的屁股里把粪便挖出来。刚开始照顾他最大的挑战就是,只要一不留神,他就会拔沙发的海绵往嘴里塞。经过一年来的调教,他不再吃海绵、不再挖屁股。但是家里的食物就不能让他看到,他看到了如果吃不到,他会吵到天翻地覆。他还是有一个坏习惯就是很挑。清淡的东西不喜欢,最爱煎炸肉类。不吃白饭,要吃油饭,KFC。但是在大爱,我们给于孩子的清淡食物也是一种对他们的治疗。所以这方面我们还在尽量让他适应。根据他妈妈给予的回应,他现在比以前清醒很多,精神比较好了,现在嘴巴很甜,总会称呼人,他还说要去办公室帮忙张秋明医生做工呢!
He was admitted into hospital on the 2nd day he arrived because prior to this, he had swallowed some sponge, tissue etc before he came to PKKII. He also liked to dig feces from the rectum with his entire hand in.  At any time he was overlooked, he would pull out the sponge from the sofa and put into his mouth. What a challenge!
After a year of training, he has stopped eating sponge and digging his rectum. However, he will not stop making noise when he sees food. In addition, he is a picky eater; he dislikes tasteless food and loves fried food. He dislikes white rice but likes flavored rice and KFC. We need to train him to take light, delicate flavored food because it is a kind of treatment to them.



                                                                Lee Mei Bing

她住大爱5年多。他的父亲只来探望过她2次, 最后一次是在3年前。她曾生病进院。我们试图联系她的父亲。但是所有联络号码都不能联络上。今年我们别无它法就写信通知他,要他和我们联系。很可惜信被退回了。也没有收到她父亲任何消息。最后我们亲自去到他家找他。得到的回答是,他要放弃这个女儿,把抚养权、决定权都交由大爱负责。She stay in PKKII more than 5 years. Her father only came to visit her 2 times. The last visit was 3 years ago. She had infection admitted to the hospital. We tried to contact her father. But all the contact numbers given are no longer valid. We got no choice, we write a letter to him. However the letter was returned and we don’t receive any call from him. Finally we went to meet him personally. His response is he wants to surrender his daughter to PKKII.  






Chai Shyh Shun
Age : 27 Years old
Disorder : Slow Learner 学习缓慢
He is able to take care of himself and perform house chores. Although he bathes himself, it is always not clean. Because of this, he has skin problem, so he needs more attention and observation from the staffs. Besides, he has some bad habits…he likes to scratch his butts and he pulls down his pants at night. He went to school when he was little but only studied until Standard 6. Before he enrolled into PKKII, he helped his mom at the coffee shop.
他懂得照顾自己和做家务。即使他会自己冲凉,却不干净,所以它需要负责人更多的注意和协助。另外,他有不良习惯…那就是他喜欢抓自己的屁股和在晚上脱裤。他的学历只到小学六年级。在他入住大爱之前,他会到他妈妈的咖啡店帮忙。



Chin Yoke Fong
Age : 32 Years old
Disorder :Slow Learner 学习缓慢
Wanita petengahan umur ini seorang yang agak pendiam dan pemalu. Tanpa pemantauan, dia tidak mampu membuat kerja-kerja rumah. Boleh urus diri sendiri. Kadang-kadang mengalami gangguan emosi dan bercakap sendiri. Juga bertindak memukul dan mencubit kawan yang lain kalau mereka ganggu atau kacau barang.
她非常安静及害羞,不懂得做任何事若没有旁人的指点。懂得照顾自己。有时侯也会有点情绪化,喜欢自己跟自己说话。她也会打或捏别人若被干扰或碰他的东西。






Loke Khor Jia En
Age : 9 Years old
Disorder : Autism & Epilepsy 自闭症
Came from single-parent family. On the night of parturition, the doctor was not available and the nurses did not dare to deliver the baby. Because of the delay, she experienced discomfort in the womb, and finally she was born as a brain-injured child. She does not know how to express herself, so she will cry when she wants to eat, sleep, and go to toilet.At night, don't want to sleep, sometimes play her shit. Cannot stand her hungry, if hungry,she will make noise, cry and take anything around her to eat like paper, rubbish and slippers.
来自单亲家庭。在她要出世的那天晚上,刚巧医院里没有医生,护士又不敢帮她母亲接生。等到医生来时,她已经在肚子里面闷到了,所以一出世就变成脑伤儿童了。她不会表达自己,当她要吃,睡觉,上厕所,她会用哭来表达。 


Lee Yap Chin
Age : 16 Years old
Disorder : ADHD
(Attention Deficit
Hyperactive Disorder),
注意力不集中多动症。
Came from single-parent family. He was looked after his aunt but finally she surrendered him to us. He talks excessively,and sometimes beats someone without any reasons. He attends to school at Wisma Harapan. He can do house chores and take care for himself.Can't see clearly without glasses. Every time his father buy glasses, he always damage and lost it. Now his glasses keep by school driver bus (Uncle Lee) for him to use at school only.
他来自单亲家庭。原是由他阿姨照顾的,可是她最后也交给我们。他很爱讲话,有时候会沒有原因的打人。他也是在Wisma Harapan 上学。他会懂得帮忙做家务。 


Lim Mei Hsia
Age : 19 Years old
Disorder : Autism自闭症

有着美丽的笑容,羞答答的脸孔。当她看见陌生人时都会静静的坐着微笑。可是在熟悉的人面前,她会變得很叽喳。她很喜欢捏自己,她的手被她捏得伤痕累累。当快复原时,她又把它的皮拔掉,使得伤口又流血了,而導致她的手脚有很多疤痕。我们有时绑着她的手为了不要让她弄伤自己的皮肤,有一次她趁沒人注意時把同伴的痣给捏掉了。




Teh Yi Kent
Age :7 Years old
Disorder : Cerebral Palsy 脑性麻痹
The adopted parents realized his retarded growth when he was 7 months old. After visiting doctor, then only they knew he has this disorder, but the parents still take good care of him. He is unable to sit, talk, and take care of himself. Although he is 5 years old, his size is just like a 2-year-old child.
他的养父母在他七个月时发现他的体形并没有长大,也不会翻身。经过询问医生才知道他有脑性麻痹症。尽管如此,他们还是非常的疼爱他。他不能坐,说话,和照顾自己。虽然他今年已经五岁了,可是他的体形只有两岁那么大。



Sow Ci Pei
Age : 17 Years old
Disorder :Cerebral Palsy 脑性麻痹
He is already 17, but his size is just like a baby. He is unable to move because his limbs are numb. He can neither talk nor sit. Similar to Carolyn, he is only able to consume semi-solid food like porridge.
虽然他已经17岁,可是他的身型只有6岁的孩子般大小,由于他的手脚僵硬,不能坐或站,只能躺着,只能吃软性的食物(如粥)。






Chong Chen Hwa
Age : 20 Years old
Disorder : Autism自闭症
Known as the most handsome guy at PKKII. Can only communicate with little nonverbal gestures, such as waving goodbye, Give Me Five, clapping his hands. He is not mute, but he does not speak, he only called “mama” once when he was little and later he stopped talking all together.
他的样子長得非常好看, 他并不是哑巴, 可惜他从不开口话,他只会一些簡单的手语,如:谢谢,Give me Five,拍手。小时候,曾经叫过一句 “妈妈”从此就不再说话了。



Ng Jia Yi
Age : 12 Years old
Disorder : Autism & Epilepsy 自闭症
She likes to do her own thing. If she is unable to get what she wants ,she will cry continuously. She is unable to take care of herself, except for feeding. She is also schooling at Wisma Harapan.
她喜欢做自己的东西。当她得不到她想要的东西時ᧀ就会哭个不停。除了会自己吃饭外並不懂得照顾自己。目前她也是在Wisma Harapan 上学。


Cham Chun Yen
Age : 18 Years old
Disorder : Autism 自闭症
He is unable to take care of himself. He has little speech but he talks in the language that we cannot understand.
他不会照顾自己。他会发出一些声音,但是我们却不明白他的语言。





Lai Khai Hong
Age : 16 Years old
Disorder : Autism 自闭症
He is unable to take care of himself. He will go to the toilet himself but he does not know how to wash. He also has a bad habit, i.e. knocking hands on the floor until swollen and injured. He likes eating fried and solid food but he dislikes veggies. He is unafraid of anyone except his mother. Hard to fall asleep at night.
他不会照顾自己,会自己去大小解后却不会洗手。晚间不睡觉,他喜欢在地上敲自己的手,有时敲到肿或流血。他不喜欢吃青菜,喜欢吃炸和硬的食物。他谁也不怕,只是怕自己的妈妈。



Name : Wong Juin Hui
Age : 14 Years old


Disorder : Slow Learner with Epilepsy 学习缓慢和抽痉 Often gets sudden attacks which causes self injuries. His movement is very slow.
经常抽痉使到他的头部时常撞伤因为他经常突然抽痉。他任何的举动和活动都很慢

Mempunyai epilepsi yang serius di mana setiap hari sawan akan datang walaupun bergantung pada ubat yang di beri oleh pihak Hospital. Disebabkan sawan yang sangat kerap, telah menyebabkan dia banyak kecederaan di bahagian kepala dan muka.他有非常严重的抽筋;那就是每一天都会抽筋,即使我们有让他定时吃医院开给他的药。 







 Harendran
Age : 17 Years old
Disorder : Autism 自闭症 ,  Epilepsy 发痒吊
Suka melompat keriangan.
喜欢跳跃。






 Jong Jia En
Age : 16 Years old
Disorder : Autism 自闭症 
Sangat aktif sehingga memerlukan 2 atau 3 orang untuk pegang kalau tidak dia akan lari dengan pantas. perangai seperti lelaki dan boleh memanjat. Tidak boleh urus diri sendiri tetapi faham apa yang kita cakap.
她非常过动,导致需要2至3人来拉着以避免她乱跑。她的性格很男性化。喜欢爬。她不会照顾自己,但能明白我们所讲的话。







Law Ming Yaw
Age : 15 Years old
Disorder : Autism 自闭症 
Suka makan dan rampas makanan orang lain. tidak suka pakai baju. Sekolah di Wisma harapan. Boleh pergi tandas sendiri dan makan minum sendiri. Disekolah selalu kena pukul oleh kawan yang lain sebab suka rampas makanan orang lain. Obses pada makanan dan sentiasa mahu makan. Tahu bahasa isyarat.
他喜欢吃和抢别人的食物,不喜欢穿衣服。目前就读Wisma harapan。他会自己上厕所以及吃东西。由于他在学校时常抢其他同学的食物,所以时常被人打。非常喜欢吃东西,所以时常要求说要吃。会给信号。




Woon Chooi Yin
Age : 15 Years old
Disorder : Autism 自闭症 
Ibu bapa telah meninggal dunia dan mempunyai kakak dan abang tiri. Sebelum ini, berada di bawah jagaan Ti-Ratana Salak South. Sekolah di Wisma Harapan. Boleh urus diri sendiri.Pertama masuk PKKII, senyap, pendiam dan tidak banyak karenah. Selepas daftar masuk sekolah, dia pukul budak dan pekerja di sana tanpa sebarang sebab. Juga terima laporan daripada pihak sekolah bahawa dia telah memukul kawan dan cikgu di sekolah. Perkara ini berulang-ulang sehingga kini tetapi agak kurang daripada sebelumnya.
她的双亲已不在人世了,只剩下两位同父异母的姐姐和哥哥。之前曾经住过沙叻秀的Ti-Ratana。目前就读Wisma Harapan。她会自己照顾自己。刚来到大爱之家时,她表现得非常文静及温顺。入学后,我们发现她会无缘无故的举手打中心的小孩和员工。我们也接获学校的投诉说她在学校也会打其他同学和老师。此事一直到现在已有所改善。





Name : Ong Ho Hing
Age : 20 years old
Disorder :Mental retarded/ 弱智
Pada mulanya, dia adalah seorang budak yang normal dan pergi ke sekolah.Dijaga oleh ibu tiri dan mempunyai seorang abang dan adik perempuan yang masing-masing telah bekerja. Tahun 2005 dia menjadi terencat akal. Semuanya gara-gara komputer. Terlalu obses dengan internet sehingga membawa padah terhadap dirinya. Siang dan malam menghadap komputer sehingga tidak mahu tidur dan sanggup berhenti sekolah. Setelah berhenti sekolah dia bekerja di sebuah kedai buku dan semua wang gajinya habis untuk bermain komputer di Cyber Cafe. Sekarang dia tidak mahu bercakap walaupun dia boleh bercakap. Selera makan juga kurang. Kadang-kadang dia boleh urus diri sendiri dan mandi.
起初他是一位正常的小孩,可以去上学。他是跟他的续母、哥哥和妹妹同住。2005年因沉迷于网站的电脑游戏,无日无夜的对着电脑甚至可以不用睡觉也不去上学。锉学后,他曾在书局工作。薪水全都花费在网吧玩电脑。现在他不要说话即使他可以。有时他可以照顾自己及冲凉。













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